It’s fascinating how when you’re thinking about buying a new car, suddenly, you start seeing that exact model everywhere you go. I believe this curious phenomenon, commonly known as the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon, has to do with energy. When you’re open to something, it seems to show up all around you. That’s why it’s important to protect your energy and focus on what truly matters in order to achieve your goals.
Focusing on your goals or what you want to learn attracts the energy you seek. The saying “You become who you surround yourself with” may have seemed cliché when I first heard it from my dad, but there’s truth in it. Take a moment to consider someone you don’t want to be like. Who do they spend time with? How do they behave? Now, think about the person you want to become. Who are your companions? How do you carry yourself? Are you content with who you are? It’s natural to have areas for improvement, whether it’s managing emotions, adopting healthy habits, or shedding unhealthy ones. As humans, we have the ability to evolve continuously, but it requires being open to new perspectives and learning from others.
The first step toward progress is visualizing the person you strive to become. I’m not asking you to think of a different persona or a role model; instead, envision who you want to be. Consider your current associates and behaviors. That envisioned future self is who you are today, and that vision is within reach. Maintaining focus is crucial because it lets your mind attract the energy you need and signal your readiness to receive it.
The concept of “energy” might sound like New Age jargon, but I’ve realized how profoundly it impacts our self-perception and professional lives. Your mindset and self-talk can either hinder or empower you. Confidence comes from understanding your identity and having a defined path toward your aspirations. I started reshaping my mindset after listening to “Secrets of Six-Figure Women: Surprising Strategies to Up Your Earnings and Change Your Life” on Audible (you can try it free for 30 days).
When you’re not actively focused on your desired self, you may be more likely to seek instant gratification when making decisions. Success doesn’t come easily, but with focus and self-awareness, you understand that today’s choices shape tomorrow’s outcomes. Before making decisions, ensure you’re confident in your path to avoid impulsive or emotionally driven choices.
Even with a clear vision of who I am and who I aspire to be, there are days when I wake up feeling off-kilter, tempted to give up. On such days, it’s important not to act impulsively. If necessary, take a day off or do the bare minimum. However, avoid making rash decisions. Doubting yourself is natural during challenging times, but self-doubt doesn’t diminish your worth. Ride out those tough times; they’re inevitable.
With practice, self-assurance becomes second nature. I no longer second-guess myself because I’m grounded in my identity and aspirations. Meditation helps clear my mind when I’m unsure, allowing me to discern what truly matters. Mistakes are inevitable, but self-awareness is critical. Reflect on your actions, analyze the outcomes, and learn from them. Apologize when necessary; humility garners respect.
This blog serves as a reminder that daily challenges are real, but your resilience and attitude determine your trajectory. We’re not competing with others; we’re the protagonists of our stories, shaping our destinies.
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